Avoid the Drama

I say divorce is the very, very last result to having done all you can do to save your marriage. But, for those who are considering marriage, don't take the decision lightly. If you have any doubts at all, don't go forward until you have peace within your heart that it is the right thing to do. Not just because you love someone-that doesn't cut it. Finances, communication and compatibility plays vital roles in living the rest of your life with someone. Make sure you are not making your decision based on emotions/feelings because they change.

It's better to not marry than to marry and divorce. Divorce is painful for all who are involved. So, love you and your partner enough to really listen to the truth from within-your heart, not your feelings.

Peace can come with Divorce!

My X-husband and I have been through a long grimy struggle since we've separated over 10yrs ago. This battle amongst us has done some emotional scarring concerning our children. Of course, I didn't want this because I knew it would take its toll on all of us, but it takes two to agree. Well, today I thank the most High because there is peace between us. Actually, he came to me open minded and we talked about what really happen to cause our marriage to fail. He apologized and I accepted. Now we can move forward in our lives with closure, no more burdens of the past to carry with us and still be friends. Besides our children still need both of us.

Words of Gratitude to my X

I had on my heart today to send my X-husband a nice email just expressing how grateful I am that he shared in the conception and birth of our son. Being a teenager, the age 16 yrs. young, it's a blessing that our genius son is living life on the right path. Divorce can many times result in a destructive lifestyle for children, especially when it happens when they are at a very young age and all they know is Dad and Mom as their support. Then separation happens and one parent is absent out of their lives forever in the way they once knew.

It was challenging in the beginning, but with the help of his grandparents, aunts and uncles, we were able to keep a positive grip on him in spite our decision to depart. And today, I have a wonderful relationship with my son. So, I decided to thank the one who help to make his life on this earth possible, his Father.

Why Divorce?

HMMM!

Why divorce? It happens when the two who have come together in agreement to be one has began to separate themselves in the thoughts, ideas and goals they first agreed upon. For us, my X and I, I wonder, did we ever really agree? Did we ever really take the time out to hear what the other goals in life were? Maybe we were we so wrapped up in the "emotion of love"/ the "emotion of lust" is more like it. Why? Love never dies/ends when two have found it in each other.