Let There Be Peace!

If you aren't able to work out your differences in your marriage and divorce is the agreement, let it be peace with the decision. I feel divorce it a terrible thing; it tears apart those involved. But if the marriage is causing stress, pain and aggravation, then have peace in cutting those ties and going your separate way.

No, don't attempt to make the other person's life miserable if you are no longer a significant part. Let go and move on with your life. There is a healing process that you both must go through, but don't do things to hurt the other person because you are still hurting. It takes time, but forgiveness will help you heal faster.

Divorce With Children

Divorce with children separates one parent. The children have to go with someone, but who? The sad thing is the mental and emotional distress we put our little ones/teens through because we aren't willing to be the right example to them in marriage. If divorce is the final result, it would be beneficial to the continuous growth of our children if we, although divided, can maintain a healthy relationship based on the best choices for them to progress under such extreme stress.

Being divorced for 11 years, my children have just recently began the healing process a few years ago. This was because my X husband and I couldn't come to a common ground on anything. It resulted in many challenges and even rebellious acts as a cry for help from our children. Their cry was ignored and our fight continued, not because I didn't desire the best, but my X wasn't in agreement.

Today, now he sees what selfishness has done to our family...and although I have forgiven him many years ago, the rebuilding of my relationship with my children took tears, pain and prayer.

Di-vorce-Divided force

How can two walk together unless they agree. This only means that any relationship that isn't based on long term set goals of equal nature is already di-vorce; a divided force between two. A man and woman will never agree on everything, but their destiny should be set so both are fulfilled.