Tuesday, August 23, 2011

You Can Work Together to Raise Your Children Right!


I had a challenge with my son last week. So, something I was able to do that a few years ago would have been impossible; call his father and talk to him about the situation. The point was for the both of us to work together although we aren't together, to keep our son on the right path. Besides, it shows our son that we can still get along for the purpose of making his life the best it can be without us being together. Yesterday my X called because he had a talk with our son. Then he put, DJ on the phone with me while he was standing there in his presence. At t his point there was no way for DJ to deny the situation that took place which displeased me. I thought that was very kind of my X to have compassion for my feelings concerning our son. We've come a long way and the best is yet to come.

Thursday, August 4, 2011

Divorce and Agreement


What better way to raise a child after divorce than the two agree to be friends and put all the past behind. There's no bitterness, resentment or whatever animosity between the two or maybe just one who had a hard time letting go. No one wants to lose, but it's better to let go than work on something that's just not working. I know, I've been there, but have no regrets because I put my all into it. Just so happens that my all wasn't enough and so I knew it was over. I'm at such peace today with my new life, loving me and growing spiritually. I still have a wonderful relationship with my children and a great friendship with my X.