Tuesday, June 7, 2011

Are You Married 2 Your Husband & His Mama?


There is a saying that when you marry a man, you marry his mama. In some cases that is true...and you better believe that 99.9% of these marriages end in divorce, unless the man makes a conscious decision to detach from his mother. I'm not saying forget about her, no, not at all. I am saying, his mother should no longer be in the forefront of his life. She is no longer his immediate family, but now the wife is. Genesis 2:24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. How will he become one with his wife, if he allows his mother to stand between them. Mother's do have a hard time letting go, and that's because they feel threatened that "this woman" is taken "my baby away from me"! Wake up mom's, with all due respect, he is NO LONGER your baby. Now, on the other side, the wife should respect his mother and be understanding, especially if he has a close relationship with her. If these women don't have their proper place in a man's life, divorce will surely be the end result!......Mama wins this fight! SMH!

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