I had a conversation with my X that was so refreshing for the first time in over 11yrs. Although I was open and forgave him many years ago, there was some issues he carried that made our ending really hard especially with our children. Forgiveness is the key to first give you back your peace of mind and makes it easy to work together raising children the best way possible. I wasn't given that opportunity, although I desired it so much. Now both children who struggled so many years, are all grown up and it's too late to give them that. He see this now and regrets it. One thing I never did was put a negative image of him in my children's head, he did that himself. Today, they have their own opinion of him from what they've experienced. I have no regrets because the truth always outrun a lie any day and my relationship with my children is excellent.
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